Im retarded i am looking for some1 who can talk me through how to set up a server i have tried...rune-evo v3, foxtrot 718, and a few other random ones but i cant get them online...if any1 can help me...let me know <3
You should stop trying to run a private server, because you obviously do not have near the knowledge required to do so. There's my advice.
If you really want to, then go learn Java, learn a decent amount about advanced networking concepts and Linux systems administration, then learn game development specific concepts in Java. Then give it another try.