I'm having issues playing with my friend. We can only play in private match. When I search for a game to get a full team, it automatically boots my friend from the lobby. We both have open Nat. I need to be able to play with 4 people. Playing with just me and her sucks and we want a full lobby which isn't possible for either of us at the moment. It's been 5 days. Please help. Not sure if it only happens on the Xbox One.