So i set up zap as i was supposed to and when i put the security slider to high durinf matches it had the same effect as a stanby. SO thne i tried to get host , I invited a friend who could not hear me so i put his ip on trusted which allowed him to hear me. I started up wingman with security on high then waited 10 seconds after the secodn box was checked. When i got into a gmae i was not host. Im starting to think im banend from getting host because aside from this i never got at all since release.