So i meet this girl....

**SoapyChicken** · #1 (**permalink**)

Me and my friend were walking in-school and this girl comes up to my friend and hugs him. She was ****ing hawt, but didnt get a chance to say hi but she walked away. Later on during one of my classes she was switch to one of my class rooms and I call her over and was like " your (my friend) friend. She was like yea. I said "well i didnt get a chance to hi so hi" she was like sry i didnt say hi. So we talked some more and i started to think man she ****ing cool as hell. Then class ended and i talked to my friend in the locker room and asked about that one girl. He like yea shes cool as hell right. Im like **** yea. Then i ask him if she had any boyfriends. He said naw. Now im thinking in my head like yes i have a chance! but then he brings up that she has a 1 year old kid. I was like STFU u serious! He was like yea. Now im thinking, great i probably have no chance. But she is looking for a guy? So do you think its wrong to go out with a 18 year old with a kid? I dont know if i should just move on or try and get her? Im open to all your opinions.

**XboxPlayer** · 02-05-2008, 09:38 PM

If you want to get serious, DON'T DO IT.
If you just want head or a jerk, Go for it.

TerminatioN · 02-05-2008, 09:44 PM

If you're looking for a serious relationship and think you can handle her having a kid then yeah, why not? I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

But I already think its an ******* move to go for girls just for sex, and if she has a kid thats like a times 10 multiplier. So don't be a **** head please, there are already enough guys like that in the world.

**SoapyChicken** · 02-05-2008, 09:49 PM

im not that kinda guy that just goes out and man whores a bunch of girls just for sex. On a serious note idk i mean i can take it seriously but then again i dont know whats coming emotionally

Kwik Shot · 02-05-2008, 09:52 PM

Soapy how old are you? But, anyways.. Do just what XboxPlayer said, if you don't think a relationship can be serious, date her for the fun things.

Because chicks come and go...

TerminatioN · 02-05-2008, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SoapyChicken

im not that kinda guy that just goes out and man whores a bunch of girls just for sex. On a serious note idk i mean i can take it seriously but then again i dont know whats coming emotionally

Thats good that you're not that kind of guy.

Only thing about her having a kid is that if she likes you a lot she might become nearly obsessed with you to the point of possibly even treating you as the kids father... If you think its worth risking "clinginess" then go for it. Sounds to me like it is.

**SoapyChicken** · 02-05-2008, 09:57 PM

ima put it into some thought.

**Venomous fire** · 02-05-2008, 10:01 PM

I say go for it, even if you dont want anything serious, showing that you are good with her kid might be a huge turn on for her

**l Krafty l** · 02-05-2008, 10:03 PM

Well, here's the thing. If you want to get into a relationship with a girl that has a kid, make sure your cool with her. Not just friends, it could be a years worth of talking to her before scooping to the relationship level. The reason why I say this is cause this advice typed here (by me) is coming from me who has witnessed this type of relationship. (Havent been in it, but I have 2 best friends who had kids in HS). The thing is, there are some girls who tend to "drag" nice guys down with them, and then once you get into it, your so far down you start to feel like a father. As much as you think, "Well, in that case I can just say its over since im NOT the father," but they could place you leaving her AND the kid on your chest if they wanted to, you dont know it can have an effect overtime.

If you just met the girl, keep talking to her if your interested, but dont just think of getting with her all the time cause thats what it kinda seems like your doing.

-XpLiCiT- · 02-05-2008, 10:08 PM

I would go for it.

But don't get/let the kid get attached to you.

dragonz2444 · 02-05-2008, 10:09 PM

Don't go for her if your not going to at least try for a serious relationship. It really pisses me off when dudes for chicks that are hot but suck at everything but genes. Seriously chicks are humans too, don't **** with them because it hurts them to figure out that your just messing with them.

Carson · 02-05-2008, 10:11 PM

Stick it in her pooper.

As always, the best, quality advice from Carson.

**l Krafty l** · 02-05-2008, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by -XpLiCiT-

I would go for it.

But don't get/let the kid get attached to you.

Depends on the situation, if he becomes good friends with her overtime, that wont be a problem. I'm just saying dont rush into it.

**SoapyChicken** · 02-05-2008, 10:12 PM

Ill give it a while and see what she is like. If i do push it to were i want to go out with her i dont know how to say like o if were going to go out i dont want to be invloved with your child. < i dont want to say that.

**DrastiK** · 02-05-2008, 10:17 PM

I think you should pretty much try to avoid the situation. You definitely don't want to get involved with that.

**l Krafty l** · 02-05-2008, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by SoapyChicken

Ill give it a while and see what she is like. If i do push it to were i want to go out with her i dont know how to say like o if were going to go out i dont want to be invloved with your child. < i dont want to say that.

If you seriously want to be in a relationship somehow with her there really is no choice.

Either your going to be there when she needs help or not.

**Venomous fire** · 02-05-2008, 10:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carson

Stick it in her pooper.

As always, the best, quality advice from Carson.

I was SSOO gonna say that but I decided to not act like im from 4chan lol

**xxxxluckyxxxx** · 02-05-2008, 10:18 PM

i would just talk to her and get to know her and go from there. I know a girl that has a kid. and she is cool and hot, lol

**SoapyChicken** · 02-05-2008, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by dragonz2444

Don't go for her if your not going to at least try for a serious relationship. It really pisses me off when dudes for chicks that are hot but suck at everything but genes. Seriously chicks are humans too, don't **** with them because it hurts them to figure out that your just messing with them.

Everyone needs love. You cant just leave her out there and pretend she not there because she had a kid. I mean fat girls need love and they get it. Ugly girls get love. If your a girl with a child, you know how rare it is to see a guy go up to you and say i like you we should go out.

02-05-2008, 09:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
TerminatioN P®3/\/\ø \|<1/\/G Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida. Posts: 2,342 Gave Thanks: 0 Received Thanks 185 Times Total Awards: 2	If you're looking for a serious relationship and think you can handle her having a kid then yeah, why not? I don't think there is anything wrong with that. But I already think its an ***** move to go for girls just for sex, and if she has a kid thats like a times 10 multiplier. So don't be a ** head please, there are already enough guys like that in the world. Last edited by TerminatioN : 02-05-2008 at 09:44 PM.

02-05-2008, 10:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
Carson Se7en Sinner Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: South Carolina Posts: 8,369 Gave Thanks: 108 Received Thanks 257 Times Total Awards: 2	Stick it in her pooper. As always, the best, quality advice from Carson. Last edited by Carson : 02-05-2008 at 10:11 PM.

02-05-2008, 09:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
XboxPlayer u liek mudkipz ? Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,288 Gave Thanks: 74 Received Thanks 55 Times Total Awards: 2	If you want to get serious, DON'T DO IT. If you just want head or a jerk, Go for it.

02-05-2008, 09:49 PM	#4 (permalink)
SoapyChicken COD4 > RSV2 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 1,919 Gave Thanks: 92 Received Thanks 163 Times	im not that kinda guy that just goes out and man whores a bunch of girls just for sex. On a serious note idk i mean i can take it seriously but then again i dont know whats coming emotionally

02-05-2008, 09:52 PM	#5 (permalink)
Kwik Shot BANNED Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: TPF's Mod CP Posts: 3,097 Gave Thanks: 18 Received Thanks 10 Times	Soapy how old are you? But, anyways.. Do just what XboxPlayer said, if you don't think a relationship can be serious, date her for the fun things. Because chicks come and go...

02-05-2008, 09:57 PM	#7 (permalink)
SoapyChicken COD4 > RSV2 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 1,919 Gave Thanks: 92 Received Thanks 163 Times	ima put it into some thought.

02-05-2008, 10:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
Venomous fire ๏̯͡๏﴿๏̯͡๏﴿๏̯͡๏﴿๏̯͡๏﴿ Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: In Krafty's backpack Posts: 3,707 Gave Thanks: 23 Received Thanks 268 Times Total Awards: 3	I say go for it, even if you dont want anything serious, showing that you are good with her kid might be a huge turn on for her

02-05-2008, 10:03 PM	#9 (permalink)
l Krafty l Handshakes Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Guttaville Posts: 13,214 Gave Thanks: 70 Received Thanks 341 Times Total Awards: 3	Well, here's the thing. If you want to get into a relationship with a girl that has a kid, make sure your cool with her. Not just friends, it could be a years worth of talking to her before scooping to the relationship level. The reason why I say this is cause this advice typed here (by me) is coming from me who has witnessed this type of relationship. (Havent been in it, but I have 2 best friends who had kids in HS). The thing is, there are some girls who tend to "drag" nice guys down with them, and then once you get into it, your so far down you start to feel like a father. As much as you think, "Well, in that case I can just say its over since im NOT the father," but they could place you leaving her AND the kid on your chest if they wanted to, you dont know it can have an effect overtime. If you just met the girl, keep talking to her if your interested, but dont just think of getting with her all the time cause thats what it kinda seems like your doing.

02-05-2008, 10:08 PM	#10 (permalink)
-XpLiCiT- Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 2,179 Gave Thanks: 5 Received Thanks 8 Times	I would go for it. But don't get/let the kid get attached to you.

02-05-2008, 10:09 PM	#11 (permalink)
dragonz2444 7S Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,275 Gave Thanks: 183 Received Thanks 55 Times	Don't go for her if your not going to at least try for a serious relationship. It really pisses me off when dudes for chicks that are hot but suck at everything but genes. Seriously chicks are humans too, don't **** with them because it hurts them to figure out that your just messing with them.

02-05-2008, 10:12 PM	#14 (permalink)
SoapyChicken COD4 > RSV2 Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Chicago Posts: 1,919 Gave Thanks: 92 Received Thanks 163 Times	Ill give it a while and see what she is like. If i do push it to were i want to go out with her i dont know how to say like o if were going to go out i dont want to be invloved with your child. < i dont want to say that.

02-05-2008, 10:17 PM	#15 (permalink)
DrastiK Crowd War GO! Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: RockBottom, NY Posts: 2,021 Gave Thanks: 67 Received Thanks 57 Times	I think you should pretty much try to avoid the situation. You definitely don't want to get involved with that.

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xxxxluckyxxxx Ein Leben erhalten Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: IOWA Posts: 935 Gave Thanks: 38 Received Thanks 9 Times	i would just talk to her and get to know her and go from there. I know a girl that has a kid. and she is cool and hot, lol

02-05-2008, 10:22 PM	#20 (permalink)
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