| Well, here's the thing. If you want to get into a relationship with a girl that has a kid, make sure your cool with her. Not just friends, it could be a years worth of talking to her before scooping to the relationship level. The reason why I say this is cause this advice typed here (by me) is coming from me who has witnessed this type of relationship. (Havent been in it, but I have 2 best friends who had kids in HS). The thing is, there are some girls who tend to "drag" nice guys down with them, and then once you get into it, your so far down you start to feel like a father. As much as you think, "Well, in that case I can just say its over since im NOT the father," but they could place you leaving her AND the kid on your chest if they wanted to, you dont know it can have an effect overtime.
If you just met the girl, keep talking to her if your interested, but dont just think of getting with her all the time cause thats what it kinda seems like your doing. |